Assertiveness

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|Self Esteem & Assertiveness | |
|Method 1 | |
|About This Training Course | |
|Building your self-esteem is essential for confidence and success, and it all begins with you. Of all the judgments you make in life, none| |
|is as important as the one you make about yourself. Without some measure of self-worth, life can be enormously painful. During this | |
|one-day workshop you will discover some simple techniques that dramatically change how you feel about yourself. You will learn how to | |
|recognize the importance of learning self-acceptance and nurturing your sense of self. | |
|Subjects Covered | |
|This one-day workshop will help you teach participants how to: | |
|Grow in the conviction that they are competent and worthy of happiness | |
|Make a positive first impression | |
|Turn negative thoughts into positive thoughts | |
|Make requests so that you get what you want | |
|Find ways of connecting…...

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