Why I Love My Strict Chinese Mom

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1. Give an account of childraising as presented in the three texts
Text 1
Sophia Chau-Rubenfeld tells her story of how her mothers ”tough love” parenting methods raised her into a strong and independent girl who can make her own decisions. 18-year-old Chau-Rubenfeld thinks her rearing was good, and decided to write an official essay back to her mother, where she tells about how good it is to be raised by a so called tiger mom. She admits that her mum was very strict but that is only something she is very happy for to this very day.

Text 2
"Let them eat pizza: Parenting guru's recipe for bringing up children" by Sdr. Bryan Caplan tells us a whole different point of view on the raising of children. Caplan claims, that children should be able to do whatever they want. He thinks that parents are trying too hard to raise their kids into succesfull adults.

Text 3
In the ”Summerhill ­ a radical approach to child rearing" by A.S. Neill is a General Policy Statement taken from the Summerhill School’s website. Neills opinion is like Dr.Bryan Caplans. He thinks that parents are pushing their children too much and have too high exspectations. He also talks about children’s creativity, which is hard to keep up, when all the other subjects at school fill up all the time.

2. How does A.S. Neill engage the reader in text 3?
The General Policy statement is taken from the official website of Summerhill School. So it would be obviously a good thing to say positive things about the school: ”I would rather Summerhill produce a happy street sweeper than a neurotic prime minister.” Concurrently he criticises the parents and everyone, who shares Amy Chuas opinion on raising children.

Already from the start, we sense an affirmative attitude: ”But learning should come after play”. He states, by using Nijinsky, a famous Russian ballet danser, that just because…...

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